It is also a good excuse to meet your lover, to meet in a quiet place. He doesn’t want much from the other side. It does not give false messages. Seriously, I don’t say it or not… It’s just a moment, what harm comes from “dating conversation“ ?
A period when you are very sad, if a relative invites you to drink coffee, even that little time period will allow you to see that there is still sun in the sky. Moreover, if you can express your sadness during this coffee session, the meeting turns into a “therapy conversation ”. Why not ?